Incwadi emayelana nomngcele ongakaze weqwe abazali

Akukho okwesabeka njengomzuzu lapho uvulela abadala iminyango yomuzi wakho ngenhliziyo ehlanzekile, eqotho, kanti ngakolunye uhlangothi, ngemuva kwakho kuqala amacebo nobuqili. Lapho abazali bekhohlwa ukungathathi hlangothi futhi bema ngobumpumputhe ohlangothini lwendodana yabo noma indodakazi yabo ngokumelene nomlingani wesibili.

Lapho bengena emunye umshado wabanye, abazali bavame ukukholwa ukuthi benza okulungile. Kodwa abazi lonke iqiniso, futhi ababoni ngisho nokuthi baletha ubuhlungu obubhubhisayo, obungenakulungiseka komunye umuntu, futhi balimaza kanjani iziphetho zabazukulu babo, behlukanisa umhlaba wabo phakathi.

Ngibhala le ncwadi njengesikhumbuzo somthetho ophakeme wokuhlonipha umndeni: ungaze ube ngumahluleli emzini wabantwana bakho. Ungakhi amacebo, ungehlukanisi okungehlukaniseki futhi ungabafundisi indlela yokuphila. Ubizo lwakho ukuba ube ukukhanya okuthulile nokweseka okuhle, hhayi amandla abhubhisa lokho okungakhiwanga nguwe.