Ubuthakathaka besinyathelo sokuqala: Lapho ningakabi umndeni kodwa senidlula ababili

Ukuba umbhangqwana yisimo esithinta inhliziyo kakhulu futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo esintengantengayo phakathi kwendoda nowesifazane. Anikashadi, anisewona umndeni. Nisamile emnyango womunye nomunye: lapho ufuna ngobuqotho umuntu ngamehlo, lapho ngomphefumulo wakho wonke ufuna ukuba seduze futhi uhambe uya kuye, kodwa ngaphakathi kucindezela ukwesaba — ukwesaba ukumlimaza ngengozi, ukuphazamisa ukuthula kwakhe noma ukwenqatshwa.

Kulolu shintsho oluncane olubucayi, ukungasho okusemqondweni kanye nokuziqhenya benza ukukhaphela okukhulu kakhulu — benza abantu bathule. Ngenxa yokwesaba ukuthatha isinyathelo sokuqala nokuvuma lokho okwenzeka emphefumulweni, abantu balahlekelwa isikhathi esiyigugu esingeke sabuyiselwa.

I-Mir Par iqala ngobuqotho phambi kwakho naphambi komunye. Le ndawo yakhelwe labo abafuna ukwakha umanyano wokuphila konke — okusho ukuthi bakulungele ikakhulukazi ukulalela inhliziyo yabo siqu, imizwa yabo yangempela nokuyeka ukuyifihla ngokuthula.