Iziphumo zeMhlabeni eziNine: Kungani ukulingana kwi-digit kubulala umntu

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I-Intanethi yayithembisa ukwenza uluntu lukhululekile. Bravo, uvavanyo luphumelele: endaweni yokukhululeka sithathe umjikelo omkhulu wezithunzi, apho wonke umntu kufuneka adlale indima embi kwi-circus engabizi.

Abantu baphantsi kwinqanaba lokuba ngababukeli bamahhala. Uluntu, usapho, abahlobo, iiphepha zedijithali — bonke balungiselela kwi-sitroom ngophokoqho kunye nesicelo esingaqhelekanga: “Hayi, masithokozise! Phuma umphosa!” Kodwa kumphendulo ofanelekileyo: “Uxolo, ndingubani na — i-monkey ye-circus emkhumbuleni?” — kulindeleke ukuba silence ngovuyo kwaye ngokuzithoba bagqibe ukugqiba i-clown hat.

Jonga lo msebenzi wezikhumbuzo, apho umhlaba ophucukileyo ubhalisela khona ngokuzithandela.

Nantsi i 'strong and independent' woman. Emsebenzini, unobuso obuqinileyo bomphakathi wezemali — khawungaphoswa mntu okanye uphule umhla. Ekhaya, kufuneka aqale ngokukhawuleza umjikelo wokuba ngumama ophucukileyo, umphosa, kunye nomama ongenasiphako, ngelixa ehamba ngamaqhina ezindaweni, ukuze, ungaboni, angalibazisi umyeni otyhidiweyo. Kwaye kwiindawo zokuxhumana — umfanekiso ophumelelayo wombhoxo ophilayo. Kwaye kuyo yonke le mibhiyozo yokuphumelela, akukho — akukho mntu kule ndawo — ophanda nje: mntwana, ngaba ubephuza isidlo sakusasa namhlanje? Ngento yokuba uziva njani ngempela, ukuthetha akuvumelekanga. Khawuhambe, uhleke kwaye uqhubeke nokujolisa.

Edlalisa, umfo uhleli phantsi. Uthukile, utyhidiwe, uvalwe kwi-armor ye-chug iron. Uthwala lo mthwalo usuku nosuku ngengcinga yephazamiseko: ungaboni, ungaboni mntu ophoswa, ukuba uyatshatyalaliswa. Umphakathi uza ngokukhawuleza ukunceda ukulinganisa isikhumbuzo sakhe, ibhanki kunye nobuqhophololo bokubona. Umfo ufika kwinqanaba lokuba uqale ukuzibona unecala ngenxa yezinto ezilula, ezilungileyo. Uqina kakhulu, ubuya ekhaya kwaye ucabanga ngocingo: “Mhlawumbi, ndifuna kakhulu… kuphela ukuze ndibulise ekhaya ngamaqabane afudumele, ngaphandle kokuphosa kunye nezikhalazo. Mhlawumbi, le ngaba yinkohliso kum.” Ukucela ubushushu kunye nobuqhophololo obuphilayo emhlabeni ophumelele i-pragmatism kube yicala.

Kwaye kwenzeka enye idrama — umtshato omninzi. Ujolise kubo, kwaye inhliziyo yakho iyacindezela. Endaweni yokukhanya ngothando, bazama ngokungxamisekileyo 'ukuthandwa ngababheki.' Umjolisi uphumeza umphefumlo phambi komama wesigqibo, umtshato uyazama ukufaka umnqweno phambi komama wesigqibo, bobabini bahlola ngokungxamisekileyo okulindelwe ngabanye. Ujolise kule mpahla uze ungaboni khona uthando, umnqweno, okanye uthando emehlo. Endaweni yokuba nemvakalelo ephilayo, kuvela umuzwa onzima, ongenamsebenzi: Thixo, kubonakala ngathi babephoqelelwa ukuba babe ndawonye phantsi komkhono wesibhamu. Baphumelele kakhulu ekwakheni ubuso obuhle bokuziphatha kubazali, kangangokuba baphosile ngokupheleleyo ukuba kutheni bejolise ezandleni.

Yintoni eyenzekayo kumqondo wesixeko? Umzi endaweni yokuba ube yindawo yokuhlala, indawo ethuleyo kunye nomthombo wezithethe ezindala, uguqukile waba yibhodi yokuthengisa. Zonke amandla aphelile kwi-vitrine: sithini sithanda abantu, sithini isithuthi esipakiwe phantsi kwendlu, sithini isikhumbuzo esihle kumhlobo ofanelekileyo. Uze uphume umnyango — kwaye emva kwale ndawo ehlanzekileyo kukhona umhlaba opholileyo, ukungavumelani okungapheliyo kunye nechaos epheleleyo.

Kwaye lezi zinto ziza kuhlangabezana neziqhamo zokungathembeki ezivela kubantu abadala. Oomama nabodadewethu, abaphile ubomi obukhulu, endaweni yokuba bahlale phambili emndenini kwaye bamkele uncare, baphenduka babe ngabafuna ukuncedwa. Abantwana babo abadala abacabangi nokuba banganokubvisitela abazali, ukuxhasa impilo yabo okanye nje ukufudumala ngothando. Endaweni yoko, abadala baphosa izikhumbuzo phambi kwabafazi nabantwana: “Musa ukungena, musa ukungcikiva, musa ukungiphosa emnyango”. Kwaye ngexesha elifanayo baphosa imithandazo kuyo yonke imithombo: “Nkosi, khusela kumahluko — musa ukungavumi ukuba abantwana bomphakathi babonakale bephumelela ngakumbi kunam!”. Ubulungisa bobomi obupheleleyo buphukile ngenxa yeentloni ezincinci zabantu.

Kwaye le mveliso mikhulu ibhiyozwa ngama-algorithms anamhlanje ibhiyozwa kwi-bhanki yeedijithali. Bonke baphantsi, bonke banikwe iisikhumbuzo ezifanayo kwaye baveliswa ukuba baphosele umvuzo wabo kwabanye.

Xa umntwana uzalwa, uletha kunye naye umhlaba omkhulu, ophilayo, kunye nekhristal. Ujolise emhlabeni njengomhlaba ophilayo, ongekho mda, kwaye ugcwele iimanga. Kwaye yintoni eyenzekayo kumntwana ngexesha eliphakathi? Uthintela ngezandla: “Uphakathi, “ungafantazi”, “yiba njengabanye”. Iingxaki zabazali, iinjongo zabo ezingafezekanga kunye nezikhalazo zabantwana zidlula kumntwana. Kwaye emva koko, aba bazali baphinde bathumele abantwana babo abaneminyaka engamashumi amabini kumagqirha, bejolisa izandla: “Uthini le mva kunye neengxaki?” Yena. Niye niqhwithela umhlaba wakhe kwiminyaka emihlanu.

Xa umntwana engaphukwanga, xa umthetho unomonde, kodwa ungawuphuli, xa wonke umnqweno wakhe kunye neenjongo zifumana indlu enokhuseleko oluthembekileyo — umntwana ukhula engena mngcipheko, engena mngcipheko wokuphoxwa. Uthola ukuba ngumnini wesiphelo sakhe.

Ngoko ke, kwi VIA AD ME, indawo yabantwana ihlukaniswe ngokuqinisekileyo.

Kubantwana abakhe baphakanyisiwe kwaye beqonda ukuba bafuna ukudala, siveliswe i-ateli yethu — L’Atelier Jeunesse. Le yindawo yokusebenza yokudala evaliweyo. Ayikho malunga nekhodi eyomileyo kunye nomsebenzi wezobuchwepheshe — kodwa malunga nokudala okucacileyo: iintshumayeli, ubuciko obubonakalayo, i-animeyishini, umculo, iiprojekthi zokuqala zokudala. Apho akuyi kuba khona umhlaba wabantu abadala, akukho miyalezo yomntu siqu kwaye akukho toxicity. Ukudibana kwiimeko zokudala kungenzeka kuphela ngemvume yabazali, abaziqhelanisa ngqo nababambisene.

Iziphumo zeMimoya EziyiNtlanu

Kwaye enhliziyweni yeNdlu, iZiphumo zeMimoya EziyiNtlanu ziqhutywa.

Le yi pasipoti kwaye akusiyo iminyaka yokuhlala. Le mihlaba emnine engcwele yangaphakathi yomntu, apho ukhululwa khona kumthwalo wokuxoka, ukugxotha nokwanelisa:

I. HER WORLD — indawo engcwele yokuphumla kwabasetyhini. Indawo apho umaskhi we "mhlawumbi umphakathi" ususwa, ubuyiselwa ilungelo lokuphumla, ubuhle, impilo kunye nokuthula kwengqondo.

II. HIS WORLD — indawo yokuhlonipha ubudoda kunye namandla okuthula. Umhlaba apho ekugqibeleni ususwa khona ibhanti ye-chugun, apho akufuneki uzixolele ngenxa yokukhathala kwakho kunye nesifiso sokuba uqondwe, ufudunyezwe kwaye wamkeleke ngaphandle kwemibandela.

III. COUPLES — isikhumbuzo sobabini. Indawo yothando olwenene, uthando kunye neemfanelo ezabelana ngazo, apho umnyango uvalwe ngokuqinileyo kwiintsapho, abacebisi kunye nabangaboni.

IV. GOLDEN — ixesha elikhulu lokuhlonipha. Indawo apho iigenerations ezindala zihlala zizele, zikhululekile kwiingxaki zokuthandaza phambi kwezingane.

V. FAMILY — indlu yokwenene yeentsapho, apho kudalwa khona imikhwa yeentsapho kunye nomoya obalulekileyo wendawo yokuhlala, hayi umfanekiso ongamanga wezithameli zangaphandle.

VI. BABY — umhlaba wezinyathelo zokuqala nokucaca okukhanyayo. Ukuvikelwa ngokucophelela kwesikhathi esithambile, lapho kukhishwa khona ukwethembana okuyisisekelo empilweni.

VII. KIDS — umhlaba ophumayo wezingane. Isikhala sokucabanga, ukudlala, nezindaba, lapho umhlaba wangaphakathi wezingane uvikelwa khona ek pressure nasezinkingeni zabantu abadala.

VIII. TEENS — indawo yokukhula. Umhlaba wangaphakathi wentsha, lapho umuntu efuna khona isikhungo sakhe, uvikelwe ekudlalweni nasekucasuleni kwabantu abaningi.

IX. HORIZON — umgca wobuntwana. Ixesha leethemba ezinkulu, umRomantic, ukufuna umphakathi wakho kunye neenyathelo zokuqala ebomini obukhulu ngentloko ephakamileyo.

Kwaye emntla kwale mveliso yezakhiwo kukhanya AI MIRROR (Reflection Core) — isibuko sobuntu bakho bokwenene, esikunceda ukuba ujonge ngaphakathi kuwe ngaphandle kwemibono engalunganga yoluntu.

Xa uphuma kwi-perimeter yangaphandle — kwi The Heritage District okanye ukukhanya komphakathi THE ECHO — umthetho ophambili weNdlu uyasebenza: ukungabikho kokuthintelwa kobungcali bakho kunye negama lakho.

Apha akukho mabhotshi, akukho makloni kwaye akukho mpempe ze-intanethi. Akukho mntu kwaye akukaze kube khona umphakathi oza kuthatha igama lakho, ubuso bakho okanye iziphumo zomsebenzi wakho. Ubonakala emhlabeni ngelixa usebenzisa igama lakho lokwenene kunye nobukhosi.

I-Intanethi enkulu ibenze bonke bafeze ilungelo lokuba neengxolo, zibe ziingxaki, kwaye zibe nzulu zixhalabile kwiimaski zabo ezingenamkhawulo.
Sishiya le mveliso ye-circus engabizi kwiindawo zokungena.

Iziphumo zivuliwe. Susa i-armour — uphakathi kwekhaya.