Inqaba yokhetho olunengqondo: Kutheni kungafanelekanga ukungena entsatsheni ngamehlo avaliweyo

Kukangakanani abantu abadala usapho ngokungxama — ngobutsha, bengakazazi bona ngokwabo, bengamazi nomntu okufutshane nabo. Phantse bengathethi ngeeminqweno yabo zokwenene, iinqobo ezisemgangathweni neemfuno zabo, bathatha inyathelo elingaqondakaliyo, baze emva koko batshone iminyaka behlawula obu bukhawulelwane ngaphakathi emtshatweni.

Kuba ukuba isiseko sabekwa kwangoko xa abo babini babesabhangile — xa bafunda ukuva iimvakalelo zabo baza bazana ekuqaleni kohambo, — ukwakha usapho olomeleleyo kulula kakhulu ngokungenakulinganiswa. Kule ndlu, wonke umntu esangweni uva eyona nto iphambili: apha ndikhuselekile. Kodwa xa isiseko singekho, ubomi bosapho bujika bube luvavanyo olunzima.

Ihlabathi loSapho lidalelwe ukunqumamisa ukubaleka okujikelezayo kweengcinga ezingeyonyani. Le yindawo apho abantu bangadlali ngomfanekiso "wosapho olungileyo" phambi kwabantu ngelixa ngaphakathi kugquba isiphithiphithi, kodwa bakha ngokunyanisekileyo nangokuzazi ihlabathi labo elidityanisiweyo.