Ubuthakathaka besinyathelo sokuqala: Xa ningekabi lusapho, kodwa sele ningaphezu kwababini

Ukuba sisibini yeyona meko ithambileyo kwaye kwangaxeshanye eyona nkenenkene phakathi kwendoda nomfazi. Anitshatanga, aningekabi lusapho. Nima kuphela emnyango womnye komnye: xa ufuna umntu ngamehlo akho ngokunyanisekileyo, xa umphefumlo wakho ufuna ukuba kufuphi kwaye uhambe ukuya kuye, kodwa ngaphakathi kukho uloyiko — uloyiko lokumkhathaza ngengozi, ukuphazamisa uxolo lwakhe okanye ukwaliwa.

Kanye kolu tshintsho lubhityileyo, ukungathethi nokuzingca benza eyona nkohliso inkulu — benza abantu bathule. Ngenxa yokoyika ukuthatha inyathelo lokuqala nokuvuma oko kusemoyeni, abantu balahlekelwa lixesha elixabisekileyo elingenakuphinda libuyiselwe.

IMihlaba yeZibini iqala ngokunyaniseka phambi kwakho naphambi komnye. Le ndawo yenzelwe abo bafuna ukwakha umanyano lobomi bonke — ngoko ke, bakulungele kuqala ukuva iintliziyo zabo, iimvakalelo zabo zokwenyani nokuyeka ukuzifihla ngokuthula.