A letter about the boundary that parents must never cross

There is nothing more terrifying than the moment when you open the doors of your home to your elders with a pure, sincere heart, and in response, behind your back, intrigues and conspiracies begin to be woven. When parents forget about neutrality and blindly take the side of their son or their daughter against the other spouse.

By interfering in someone else's union, parents are often certain they are doing the right thing. But they do not know the whole truth and do not even realise what devastating, irreparable pain they inflict on another person and how they cripple the fates of their own grandchildren, tearing their world apart.

Scrivo sta letera come un promemoria de la lege suprema de l'onor de la fameja: mai diventar giudisi in la casa dei propri fioi. No costruir intrighi, no divider quel che no se pol divider e no insegnarghe come viver. La to vocazion xe esser luce quieta e sostegno bon, no forza che destruta quel che no ti ga costruio.