The fortress of conscious choice: Why one must not enter a family blindly

How often people create a family impulsively — in youth, knowing neither themselves nor the person beside them. Barely speaking of their true desires, values and needs, they take an unconscious step, and then pay for that haste for years within the marriage.

For if the foundation was laid back when the two were a couple — when they learned to hear their feelings and came to know each other at the beginning of the path — to build a strong family is immeasurably easier. In such a home, each person feels from the threshold the essential thing: here I am protected. But when there is no foundation, family life turns into a heavy trial.

Lefatshe la Lelapa le etseditswe ho emisa ho matha ka sedikadikwe sa dikgakanyo tse fosahetseng. Ke sebaka moo ho sa bapalweng "lelapa le lokileng" bakeng sa batho ha ka hare ho na le moferefere, empa ho ahwa lefatshe la lona le kopanetsweng ka botshepehi le ka kelello.