Ubwoba bw'intambwe ya mbere: Igihe mutari umuryango, ariko murenga abantu babiri

Kuba abakundana ni imimerere y'urukundo rwinshi kandi icyarimwe itemewe cyane hagati y'umugabo n'umugore. Ntimukarongorana, ntimukaba umuryango. Muhagaze gusa ku muryango w'umwe n'undi: igihe ushakisha umuntu n'amaso y'ukuri, igihe n'umutima wawe wose ushaka kuba hafi ye no kugenda ugana ibwami, ariko imbere mu mutima hari ubwoba bukugota — ubwoba bwo kumubabaza utabishaka, guhungabanya ituze rye cyangwa kwangwa.

Ni kuri iyo nzira yoroshye aho kutavuga byose n'ubwibone bikora ubuhemu bukomeye — bituma abantu baceceka. Kubera gutinya gutera intambwe ya mbere no kwatura ibiri mu mutima, abantu batakaza igihe cy'agaciro kitashobora kugaruka.

Isi y'Abakundana itangira ku kuri imbere yawe no imbere y'undi. Ni umwanya wagenewe abashaka kubaka ubumwe bw'ubuzima bwose — bityo rero, baba biteguye mbere ya byose kumva umutima wabo bwite, ibyiyumvo byabo by'ukuri no kureka kubihisha inyuma y'uguceceka.