Ukuvuselelwa kokuthembana: Indlela esifunda ngayo ukwakha umndeni kabusha

Ukwakha umndeni — ikakhulukazi lapho usuwazi intengo yobuhlungu nokulahlekelwa — kuyindlela edinga ukunakekela okukhulu. Inqubo engaphakathi kulo Mhlaba ikuhola kusukela ekuxwayeni nasekwesabeni ukuphinda amaphutha amadala kuya emandleni azolile, avuthiwe.

Okokuqala kuhamba ukuqhwala kwangaphakathi nomkhuba wokuzivikela wedwa. Bese kuthi ngezingxoxo eziqotho, imikhuba ehlanganyelwe kanye nokutholakala okuhlanganyelwe nibeke izimiso zomndeni ezintsha, lapho izwi lomuntu ngamunye lihlonishwayo.

And one day you catch yourself thinking that fear is behind you: your home is calm, bright and warm, and beside you is the person with whom you look in the same direction by right of a free and pure choice.