Izindlela ezimbili ngaphakathi emshadweni: Ukubekezelela ngaphandle kokuphuma noma ukufunda ukwakha

Lapho abantu beqonda ukuthi emshadweni wabo akusekho ukusondelana kwangaphambili, kuba khona izindlela ezimbili ezibhekene nabo. Eyokuqala — ukubekezelela iminyaka, ukuthokozisana, ukufihla ubuhlungu ngokumamatheka okuhloniphekile phambi kwezivakashi nokuzikholisa ukuthi "akukho ndlela yokuphuma" noma ukuthi kufanele "ubekezelele ngenxa yezingane". Kodwa umdlalo womuntu oyedwa awusindisi ikhaya — ushisa kancane kancane umphefumulo walowo ophethe konke yedwa.

Indlela yesibili — ukuthola isibindi sokuyeka ukuzifihla nokuzama ukwakha umndeni ngempela: ukuthola izinhloso ezabiwe, ukusungula amagugu omndeni wakho kusukela ekuqaleni nokubeka amasiko aphilayo anokuhloniphana nokusekelana.

When I was creating the architecture of the World of Family, I wanted to give people precisely this chance for honest creation. Because we are not born with the ability to keep a hearth — we learn to build a family every day, if both are ready to meet each other halfway.