Ubuthakathaka besinyathelo sokuqala: Ngesikhathi ningakabi umndeni, kodwa senidlula ababili

Ukuba umbhangqwana yisimo esithinta inhliziyo kakhulu futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo esintengantengayo phakathi kwendoda nowesifazane. Anikashadi, anikabi umndeni. Nisamile emnyango womunye nomunye: lapho ufuna umuntu ngamehlo akho ngobuqotho, lapho ngomphefumulo wakho wonke ufuna ukuba seduze futhi uhambe uya kuye, kodwa ngaphakathi kucindezela ukwesaba — ukwesaba ukumlimaza ngengozi, ukuphazamisa ukuthula kwakhe noma ukwenqatshwa.

Kulolu shintsho olubucayi, ukungasho okugcwele kanye nokuziqhenya kwenza ukukhaphela okukhulu kakhulu — kwenza abantu bathule. Ngenxa yokwesaba ukuthatha isinyathelo sokuqala nokuvuma lokho okwenzeka emphefumulweni, abantu balahlekelwa isikhathi esiyigugu esingeke sabuyiselwa.

I-Mir Par iqala ngokwethembeka phambi kwakho naphambi komunye. Le ndawo yakhelwe labo abafuna ukwakha umanyano wokuphila konke — okusho ukuthi bakulungele ngokuyinhloko ukuzwa inhliziyo yabo siqu, imizwa yabo eqotho, futhi bayeke ukuyifihla ngokuthula.