The fortress of conscious choice: Why one must not enter a family blindly

How often people create a family impulsively — in youth, knowing neither themselves nor the person beside them. Barely speaking of their true desires, values and needs, they take an unconscious step, and then pay for this haste for years within the marriage.

For if the foundation was laid back when the two were a couple — when they learned to hear their feelings and came to know each other at the beginning of the path — to build a strong family is immeasurably easier. In such a home each feels from the threshold the main thing: here I am protected. But when there is no foundation, family life turns into a heavy trial.

Familienes verden er skapt for å stoppe jaget i illusjonenes sirkel. Dette er et territorium hvor man ikke spiller «den mønsterfamilien» for publikum mens kaoset raser innvendig, men ærlig og bevisst bygger sin felles verden.