The Fortress of Conscious Choice: Why One Must Not Enter a Family Blindly

How often people create a family impulsively — in youth, not yet knowing either themselves or the person beside them. Barely speaking about their true desires, values, and needs, they take an unconscious step, and then pay for that haste for years within the marriage.

After all, if the foundation was laid back when the two were a couple — when they learned to hear their feelings and came to know each other at the beginning of the path — building a strong family is immeasurably easier. In such a home, everyone feels the main thing from the threshold: here I am protected. But when there is no foundation, family life turns into a heavy trial.

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