Ngā Kūaha o Ngā Ao e Iwa: He aha te ōritetanga ā-matihiko ka patu i te tangata

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I oati te ipurangi ka whakawātea i te tangata. Ka pai, kua tutuki te whakamātautau: kāore i whiwhi i te wātea, engari i whiwhi mātou i tētahi hui nui o te hunga tinihanga, kei reira me whakaari te katoa i te rā katoa i tētahi tūranga kino i roto i tētahi hīrangi iti.

Kua whakahekea te tangata ki te tūnga o te kaiwhakangahau kore utu. Te hapori, te whānau, ngā whanaunga, ngā pae matihiko — kua noho katoa rātou ki te whare mātakitaki me te pihikete, me te tono kore kōrero: "Āe, whakangahautia mai ahau! Whakaputaina tō nama!". Ā, ki te pātai ā-roto tika: "Tēnā koe, he makimaki hīrangi ahau māu i runga i te papa whakaari?" — ka noho puku whakamā, ka kuhu mārire ki te pōtae hangareka o te rā.

Tirohia tēnei hīkoi o ngā kanohi, i uru mārire ai te ao whai tikanga.

Anei te wahine "kaha, motuhake hoki" e haere ana. I te mahi, he kanohi rino tōna, he hōia rangatōpū — kaua rawa e taka i te tangata, kaua rawa e whati i te wā kati. I te kāinga, me whakakā tonu ia i te aratau o te wahine rangatira, te kaitao matua me te māmā tino pai, ā, me hīkoi mārire ia i ngā kokonga, kei riri te tāne kua hōhā. Ā, i ngā pae pāpori — me whakamahi tonu te tātari o te atua wahine harikoa, kanapa hoki. Ā, i roto i tēnei hīkoi toa o te pai, kāore tetahi — kāore rawa tetahi i tēnei ao — e pātai: e te hoa, i kai koe i te parakuihi i tēnei rā? Mō tōna āhua tūturu, he tino rāhui te kōrero. Kia manawanui, kia menemene, kia whiu tonu i ngā mea.

Kei te kawe haere tonu tetahi tane i a ia ano i te taha. Kua ngenge rawa, kua mate i te ngenge, kua herea ki roto i te pukupuku rino taumaha. Ka toia e ia tenei taumahatanga ia ra, ia ra, me te whakaaro mataku kotahi: kei kitea e tetahi kua ngenge ia. Kei kitea e tetahi tona ngoikoretanga, kei puta ranei i a ia tetahi wa poto o te ngoikore. Ka oma tonu te hapori me te ruri ki te ine i tona mana, tana putea, me te riri o tona titiro. Ka tae te tane ki te whakaaro he mea he ia mo nga hiahia tangata noa, ngawari noa. Ka mahi ia ki te mate, ka hoki ki te kainga, ka whakaaro whakama: «Tera pea he nui rawa taku tono… ko te mea noa kia powhirihia ahau ki te kainga ki nga awhi mahana, kaore he amuamu, kaore he whakapae. Tera pea he whakakeke tenei i ahau». Ko te tono mahana me te pono ora i roto i te ao kua toa te whakaaro whai take kua riro hei hara.

A i te taha e tuwhera ana tetahi atu whakaari — he tokorua taiohi. Ka titiro koe ki a raua mai i waho, ka mamae te ngakau. Engari kia whiti ana i te harikoa, kei te tino tohe raua kia «pai ki nga matua». Ka whakapau kaha te tane ki te whakamihi i te whaea o tana wahine, ka whakapati te wahine ki te whaea o tana tane, ka tirotiro ohorere raua ki nga tumanako a etahi atu. Ka titiro koe ki tenei tokorua mai i waho, kaore koe e kite i te aroha, i te wairua, i te ngawari o te titiro. Engari i te kare-a-roto ora ka puta he ahua mau tonu, he ahua whakama: e te Atua, me te mea i whakapakeketia raua kia noho tahi i raro i te mata o te pu. I te nui o to raua whakapau kaha ki te hanga i tetahi kanohi whai mana mo te whanau, kua wareware rawa raua he aha raua i mau ai i te ringa o tetahi ki tetahi.

A he aha te ahuatanga o te whakaaro mo te whanau? Ko te whanau, engari kia noho hei ohanga whakapapa, hei whanga marino, hei puna o nga tikanga tuku iho, kua huri hei panui whakamanamana. Ka pau katoa te kaha ki te whakaatu ki waho: he aha o tatou kakahu i te aroaro o te tangata, he aha te motuka kua tu ki te taha o te whare, pehea te whakapiko atu ki nga hoa e tika ana. Engari ka whiti koe i te paepae — a i muri i tenei kanohi kua orohia, kei reira he koraha kua wera, he riri kino o tetahi ki tetahi, me te tino hepohepo.

A ko te whakamutunga o tenei hokohoko tinihanga ko te reanga pakeke. Ko nga kuia me nga koroua, kua roa nei te oranga, engari kia noho rangatira ki te upoko o te whanau me te whiwhi i te manaakitanga e tika ana, ka huri hei tangata tono mataku. Kaore o ratou tamariki pakeke e whakaaro noa ki te toro atu ki nga matua, ki te tautoko i to ratou hauora, ki te whakamahana noa ranei i a ratou ki te aroha. Engari ka whakapati whakaiti nga kaumatua ki nga hunaonga wahine me nga hunaonga tane: «Kia kaua noa e pokanoa, kia kaua noa e whakapataritari, kia kaua noa e peia ki waho o te tatau». A i taua wa ano ka inoi ki nga atua katoa: «E te Ariki, tiakina mai i te whakama — kaua rawa e tukua nga mokopuna a te hoa noho kia ahua angitu ake i aku!». Kua takahia te mana o te oranga katoa mo nga wehi iti o te tangata noa.

A ko tenei hokohoko karaehe katoa kua peia e nga hātepe o naianei ki roto i te ipu matihiko kotahi. Kua whakatauritea te katoa, kua whakawhiwhia te katoa ki nga kanohi ataata rite tonu, a kua whakahaua kia whakataetae mo te whakaaetanga a etahi atu.

Ina te whānautanga o te tamaiti, ka mauria mai e ia tētahi ao nui, taketake, kōataata. Ka kite ia i te ao he ora, he mutunga kore, he ki tonu i ngā mea whakamīharo. He aha hoki te mahi a te taiao pakeke "mōhio" ki a ia? Ka patua ngā ringa me te kaha: "He tamariki tonu koe", "kaua e pohewa", "kia rite ki te katoa". Ka rere ngā māharahara o ngā mātua, ō rātou wawata kāore i tutuki, me ngā mamae o te tamarikitanga ki runga i te wairua o te tamaiti, anō he tino taumaha. Kātahi ka ārahina e aua pakeke tonu ā rātou uri rua tekau tau ki ngā kaimātai hinengaro, me te aue: "Nō hea tēnei putunga me te mate hinengaro i roto i a ia?". Nō a koutou. Nā koutou tonu i takahi tana ao i te rima tau.

Ina kāore te tamaiti e whati, ina he atawhai te whakahaere engari kāore e whakaiti, ina tūtaki ia wawata me ia whāinga ki tētahi pakitara tautoko pakari i te kāinga — ka tipu te tamaiti kāore he māharahara, kāore he wehi mutunga kore kei whakakahoretia ia. Ka tipu ia hei rangatira mō tōna ake oranga.

Koinei te take i roto i VIA AD ME ka wehea te wāhi o te tamaiti me te tino tika.

Mō ngā tamariki kua pakeke ake, e hiahia mārama ana ki te waihanga, kua hangaia tō mātou whare mahi — L’Atelier Jeunesse. He taiwhanga auaha kati tēnei. Ehara i te mea mō te waehere maroke me ngā mahi hangarau — engari mō te auahatanga mā: ngā pakiwaitara, te toi ataata, te hākoritanga, te puoro, ngā kaupapa waihanga tuatahi. Kāore rawa e tae mai te ao pakeke ki reira, kāore he karere tūmataiti, kāore he mea tūkino. Ā, ko te whakakotahi ki ngā rōpū auaha ka taea anake me te whakaae a ngā mātua e mōhio tika ana ki ngā kaiuru.

Ngā Kūaha o Ngā Ao E Iwa

Ā, i te pū o te Whare kua whakaarahia Ngā Kūaha o Ngā Ao E Iwa.

Ehara tēnei i te tari pukapuka whenua, i te taiepa mō ngā pakeke rānei. Ko ngā ao tapu e iwa o roto o te tangata, kei reira ka tangohia te herenga ki a koe kia teka, kia whakapōrearea, kia whakamanaware:

I. HER WORLD — te piringa tapu o te wahine. He wāhi e turakina ai te kanohi o te "kaiwhakamāe" manawanui, e whakahokia ai te mana ki te okiokinga, te ātaahua, te hauora me te rangimārie o te wairua.

II. HIS WORLD — te kāinga o te hōnore tāne me te kaha mārie. He wāhi e unuhia ai te pākupaku rino, e kore ai e tika kia whakapāha mō tōu ngenge me tōu hiahia kia māramatia, kia whakamahanatia, kia manakohia me te kore whakapae.

III. COUPLES — te wāhi tapu o te tokorua. Te rohe o te aroha pono, te ngāwari me ngā uara tahi, kua katia katoatia te tomokanga ki ngā whanaunga, ngā kaiwhakatakoto whakaaro me ngā kaimātakitaki.

IV. GOLDEN — te pakeketanga koura o te mana. He wāhi e noho ai ngā whakatupuranga pakeke mō rātou anō me tō rātou rangimārie, kāore he whakaiti i a rātou ki te whakapati ki ā rātou tamariki.

V. FAMILY — he kāinga tūturu, he wāhi e hangaia ai ngā tikanga ā-whānau me te mahana o te kāinga, ehara i te whakaaturanga teka mō ngā kanohi o waho.

VI. BABY — te ao o ngā hikoitanga tuatahi me te mā o te ngākau. Te tiaki ngākaunui i te pakeke tino ngohengohe, te wāhi e whakatōria ai te whakawhirinaki taketake ki te ao.

VII. KIDS — te ao puāwai o te tamarikitanga. He wāhi mō te pohewa, te tākaro me te pakiwaitara, e tiakina ai te ao o roto o te tamaiti i te taumaha me ngā pōuri o ngā pakeke.

VIII. TEENS — te rohe o te tipuranga. Te ao o roto o te taiohi, e rapu ana te tangata i tōna tūāpapa, e tiakina ana i ngā tawai me te whakahīhī o te mano.

IX. HORIZON — te paerangi o te rangatahitanga. Te wā o ngā tūmanako nui, o te aroha, o te rapu i tōu ake karangatanga me ngā hikoitanga tuatahi ki te ao pakeke me te māia.

Ā, kei te pū o tēnei hanganga e whiti ana a AI MIRROR (Reflection Core) — he whakaata o tōu tino āhua, e āwhina ana i a koe ki te titiro ki roto i a koe, kāore he whakaata kōpiko o te whakaaro o te iwi.

Ina puta koe ki te paenga o waho — ki The Heritage District, ki te ao pāpori rānei o THE ECHO — ka mana te ture matua o te Whare: te tapu tino o tōu mana me tōu ingoa.

Kāore he pōti, kāore he tārua, kāore he pirinoa whatunga. Kāore rawa he tangata e tāhaetia tōu ingoa, tōu kanohi, ngā hua rānei o tōu auahatanga. Kei te ao koe i raro i tōu ake ingoa tūturu, me te mana rangatira.

Kua whakatauritea e te ipurangi whānui te katoa ki te tika kia haruru, kia teka, kia pōuri hoki i roto i ā rātou mōtihe mutunga kore.
Ka waiho e mātou tēnei hīanga iti ki waho o te kēti.

Kua tuwhera ngā kēti. Tangohia tō pākai — kei te kāinga koe.