The fortress of conscious choice: Why one must not enter a family blindly

How often people create a family impulsively — in youth, not yet knowing either themselves or the person beside them. Barely speaking of their true desires, values and needs, they take an unconscious step, and then pay for this haste for years within the marriage.

After all, if the foundation was laid back when the two were a couple — when they learned to hear their feelings and came to know each other at the beginning of the path — building a strong family is immeasurably easier. In such a home, everyone feels the main thing from the threshold: here I am protected. But when there is no foundation, family life turns into a heavy trial.

Lo monda de la familia ia es creada per para la corsa en sirculo de iludes. Esta es un teritorio do on no jua a la "familia model" per la publica, mientras caos fero en la interna, ma on construi onesta e consensa sua monda comun.