Two extremes of maturity: Between fawning and destructive interference

Observing relationships between generations, I have often seen the same drama: when parents lack a foundation of their own, they inevitably fall into one of two extremes. Some begin to fawn over their children, afraid to say a word too many and playing roles that are not their own—just so as not to be lost, just so that a drop of attention might be shown to them.

Others choose the opposite, even more dangerous path—they become overly active in the life of a young family. Knowing neither the true circumstances nor what is actually happening between two hearts, they intrude with their advice, judgments, and rules.

Cando creaba l'arquitectura del Mundu Doráu, quería dar a la xeneración mayor la posibilidá de volver sentir el so propiu sofitu interior y percibir que pueden y deben vivir la so vida. Ye un espaciu zarráu de significáu, onde la persona yá nun necesita nin adular pa llograr atención, nin afirmase a costa d'intervenir na familia de los sos fíos.