Two extremes of maturity: Between fawning and destructive interference

Observing relationships between generations, I often saw the same drama: when parents have no foundation of their own, they inevitably fall into one of two extremes. Some begin to fawn before their children, to fear saying an extra word and to play someone else's roles — if only not to be lost, if only to be shown even a drop of attention.

Others choose the opposite, even more dangerous path — they become overly active in the life of the young family. Knowing neither the true circumstances nor what is actually happening between two hearts, they intrude with their advice, judgments and orders.

Bwe nkola ya Golden World, nali na kwagala okuwa abakulu omukisa okuddamu okuwulira obwesige bwabwe obw'omunda n'okumanya nti basobola era balina okubeera n'obulamu bwabwe. Kino kifo eky'ekyama eky'amakulu, omuntu ky'atalina kuddamu kwegondera okufuna obujja, wadde okwekuza mu kuyingira mu maka g'abaana be.