Two paths within marriage: Endure without escape or learn to create

When people realize that their marriage no longer holds the closeness it once had, two paths open before them. The first is to endure for years, to please one another, to hide the pain behind polite smiles for guests and convince themselves that "there is no way out" or that one must "endure for the sake of the children." But a one-sided game never saves a home — it only slowly burns out the soul of the one who carries everything alone.

The second path is to find the courage to stop pretending and try to truly build a family: to find shared goals, to create one's family values from scratch and to lay down living traditions in which there is mutual respect and support.

N'ịmepụta ihe owuwu nke Ụwa Ezinụlọ, achọrọ m inye ndị mmadụ ohere a kpọmkwem maka ezi okike. N'ihi na a naghị amụ anyị na nkà nke ilekọta ọkụ — anyị na-amụta ịmepụta ezinụlọ kwa ụbọchị, ma ọ bụrụ na ha abụọ dị njikere izute ibe ha.