ᎦᏙᎯ ᏗᏤᏅᏗ ᎤᏤᎵ ᎤᏙᏢᏒ: ᏗᎦᎵᏍᏙᏗᏍᎩ ᎦᏃᏢᏍᎬ ᏥᎨᏒ ᏗᏂᏲᏓᏱ ᏥᏄᏓᎸ

ᎦᏙᏃ ᏗᏂᏥ ᏂᎪᎯᎸ ᏳᏂᏴᏍᏗᏍᎪ ᏗᏂᏲᏓᏱ ᏗᎦᎵᏍᏙᏗᏍᎩ? ᏅᏗᎦᎵᏍᏙᏗᏍᎩ ᏳᏂᏍᎦᎢᎲ ᏳᏂᏗᏰᏙᎲ ᎤᏲᎢᏳ ᏧᏅᏌ ᎤᏅᏌᏉ. ᎣᏂᏱᏗᏢ ᏅᏓᏕᏆᏍᏗ ᎡᎶᎯ ᏓᎵᏍᏓᏁᎲ ᎾᏍᎩ ᎯᎠ ᎤᏣᏘ ᎢᏴᏛ ᏳᏍᏆᏂᎪᏗ ᎦᎸᏉᏗ, ᎤᏬᎯᏳᏒ ᎤᏙᏢᏒ.

ᎢᏧᎳ ᏓᏨᏁᎸ ᎭᏫᏂᏗᏢ ᎯᎠ ᎠᏓᏁᏟᏴᏍᏗ ᎤᏗᏞᎩ ᏗᎦᎳᏫᏍᏗ ᏗᏅᏓᏗᏍᏗ, ᏗᎪᏪᎵ ᏗᎬᏩᎵᏍᏓᏁᎸ ᏄᏍᏛ ᎠᏅᏓᏗᏍᏗ, ᏗᏓᏅᏍᏗ ᏅᏃᎯ ᏅᏗᎦᎵᏍᏙᏗᏍᎩ ᎤᏣᏘ ᏗᏤᏅᏗ ᏗᏓᏟᎶᏍᏗ ᎠᎴ ᎤᏗᏞᎩ ᎠᏓᏅᏖᏗ. ᎠᎭᏂ ᎠᏰᎵ ᎤᏛᏐᏅ ᎨᏒ ᎠᏰᎵ ᎡᏘ ᏳᏍᏆᏂᎪᏗ ᏧᏤᎵ ᏄᏍᏛ ᎠᏅᏓᏗᏍᏗ, ᏳᏓᏅᏖᏍᎪ ᏧᏤᎵ ᏅᏃᎯ, ᏳᏛᏓᏍᏗᏍᎪ ᎤᏍᏆᏂᎪᏗ �ᏗᎧᏃᎩᏍᏗ, ᎠᎴ ᏳᏓᏩᏛᏍᎪ ᎤᎵᎮᎵᏍᏗ ᏂᎦᏓ ᏧᏤᎵ ᎢᎦ.

When parents develop a rich inner world of their own, their need to control their children fades away. Calm self-sufficiency takes the place of intrusiveness.