Two paths within marriage: To endure without escape or to learn to create

When people realize that their marriage no longer has the closeness it once had, two paths lie before them. The first is to endure for years, to please one another, to hide the pain behind polite smiles for guests and to convince themselves that "there is no way out" or that one must "endure for the sake of the children." But a one-sided game never saves a home — it only slowly burns out the soul of the one who carries everything alone.

The second path is to find the courage to stop pretending and to try to truly build a family: to find shared goals, to create one's family values from scratch and to lay down living traditions in which there is mutual respect and support.

ᎾᏍᎩ ᏥᏂᏥᏍᏆᏂᎪᏛ ᎠᏰᎵ ᏗᏓᏁᏟᏴᏍᏗ ᎨᏒ ᎤᏤᎵ ᎤᏁᎳᏅᎯ ᏄᏍᏛ ᎠᏁᎸᏗ, ᎾᏍᎩ ᎠᏂᏴᏫ ᎤᏂᏩᏛᏗᏱ ᏥᏄᏛᎿᏕᎬ ᎯᎠ ᎤᏙᎯᏳ ᏗᏓᏁᏟᏴᏍᏗ ᎨᏒ ᎤᎬᏩᎵ. ᏂᎦᏛᏁᎲᏰᏃ Ꮭ ᏱᏙᏓᏈᏅᏓ ᏱᏙᎾᎵᏍᏓᏁᎲ ᎦᏁᎸ ᏗᏂᏍᏆᏂᎪᏗᏍᎩ — ᏂᏚᎩᏨᏂᏒ ᏓᏂᎪᎯᏍᏗ ᏓᏁᎸ ᏓᏂᏁᏟᏴᏍᏗ, ᎢᏳᏃ ᏔᎵᏉ ᎤᎾᏚᎵ ᏗᏓᏙᎵᏍᏗᏱ.