A letter bout di boundary weh parents must never cross

Nothing no more terrible dan di moment wen yu open di doors of yu home fi di elders wid a clean, sincere heart, an in answer, behind yu back, dem start fi weave plots an conspiracies. Wen parents forget neutrality an blindly take di side of dem son or dem daughter against di other spouse.

Wen dem interfere inna somebody else union, parents often sure sey dem a do di right thing. But dem no know di whole truth an dem no even realize how much crushing, irreversible pain dem a cause to di other person an how dem a cripple di destinies of dem own grandchildren, tearing dem world apart.

I write this letter as a reminder of the highest law of ancestral honor: never become judges in the house of your children. Do not weave intrigues, do not divide the indivisible, and do not teach them how to live. Your calling is to be a quiet light and kind support, not a force that destroys what was not built by you.