Two extremes of maturity: Between fawning and destructive interference

Observing relationships between generations, I often saw the same drama: when parents have no point of support of their own, they inevitably fall into one of two extremes. Some begin to fawn over their children, afraid to say an extra word and playing someone else's roles — if only not to be lost, if only to be shown even a drop of attention.

Others choose the opposite, even more dangerous path — they become overly active in the life of the young family. Knowing neither the true circumstances nor what is actually happening between two hearts, they intrude with their advice, judgments and orders.

Wen I bin build di architecture of di Golden World, mi want give di older generation di chance fi feel dia own inner ground again an feel sey dem can an must live dem own life. Dis a one closed space of meaning, weh a person no need fi beg fi attention no more, nor fi prove demself by interfering inna dem children family.